A
popular Ghanaian gospel musician has advised young ladies to date
multiple partners, before they get married, adding that it will give the
ladies chance to assess the guys and choose the best.
Esaaba Haizal
While speaking during an interview with
Abusua FM in Ghana, popular US-based Ghanaian female gospel musician, Esaaba
Haizel, stirred some controversy with her advice on dating as she advised young
ladies to date three to five men.
The gospel singer disclosed that her
advise stems from the fact that she believes that dating multiple partners is
necessary in order to assess them before selecting Mr Right.
Speaking further, she explained
that dating one man is very risky because the man might break the woman’s heart
by jilting her after heavily investing in the relationship. She quickly added
that the ladies should be careful not get in any sexual activities with the
men.
She said: "I advised young girls
on my Facebook wall to have three to five men at the same time without having
any sexual intercourse with them. You just have to be firm not to sleep with
them.
"Having multiple partners will
help you to study them, then you let the rest go, by choosing just one. Why
waste your time to date only one person?"
The gospel singer further explained that
dating multiple men also has many other advantages aside from the giving the
lady a chance to assess them.
"I’m saying this because you
can’t have it all. One of the men would be interested in your business, one
would be concerned about the food you eat on daily basis thereby supply your
needs, the other will be interested in the shoes, make ups, clothing you wear,
the list goes on," she stated.
Though Esaaba's view sounds
controversial but she believes it is good advice which would not be given even
in church.
"I’m a Christian, is there
something wrong with my advice to young ladies who aspire to marry? It's a good
advice your pastor cannot give you," she quizzed.
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