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are certain romance movies that reflect the harsh realities of
relationships among couples. These are some of those movies.
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lot of people love romantic movies. They provide the ultimate
escapism and feel-good factor when the forces of love triumphs. Most of
the times, the reason why it has such an impact on us is because of the
message it brings–a message of hope. Many can relate to sitting in front
of a screen with loved ones–whether at home or in the cinema, and
feeling teary eyed when that moment comes up which has the power to tug
on heartstrings.
The best romantic movies do not just act as entertainment, but in
fact, can actually teach us important lessons of life, love and
relationships. Here are 10 romantic movies and what they taught us
1. Silver Linings Playbook (2012)
Life is sometimes difficult and we can feel like we are trapped in a
situation where there is no escape. But the beauty is its
unpredictability as well as the people who can come into our lives when
we least expect it.
Be open to the unexpected happening. Even though you may be
struggling with demons of your own, you never know who may wander into
your life when you are least expecting it. Stop looking for love and let
love find you.
2. One Day (2011)
This is one of those romantic movies that teaches us about the
importance of friendship in a relationship. Your significant other
should also be your friend. And like any good friend, they should know
all your good and bad points but still love you any way.
Even if you do not end up dating your best friend, be with someone
who will ultimately be one of your closest companions and someone you
can rely on–no matter what.
3. Bridget Jones’s Diary (2001)
Love sometimes catches us off-guard and we fall in love with the person we may least expect.
Don’t judge a book by its cover. There are sometimes connections we
have with people that we may never have envisioned. Physical chemistry
is important, but it is even more important that they can connect with
you on other levels.
4. What’s Your Number? (2011)
Stop focusing on the past. There is a reason why people didn’t make
to your present. If you are single (and single for a while) you may
feel nostalgic and wonder “what if” about failed relationships. But
remember, if those relationships were right, they would have worked out.
So the fact is, one of you was a wrong match for the other person.
Open yourself to welcoming new people and opportunities into your life.
5. 10 Things I Hate About You (1999)
Don’t change who you are. If the person is right for you, they will
appreciate all those things that make you different–even the things
that make you uncool to everyone else.
The right one will love you just the way you are–and they will love you even more for your flaws and quirky bits.
6. He’s Just Not That Into You (2009)
Don’t wait around for someone who doesn’t behave like they want to
be with you. If you find yourself always making excuses or justifying
someone’s absence or lack of attention, the reality is that they are
probably just not that into you. It may hurt to accept this, but taking
the first step to recognizing this will be the first step to breaking
free from that hurt.
Don’t allow yourself to be nothing more than an option for someone who doesn’t see you as a priority.
7. Love Actually (2003)
This is one of those romantic movies that follows the lives of a few people.
We are reminded that everyone has the same chance of finding
love–it doesn’t matter who you are, where you are from or what your
circumstances may be. It’s all about being in the right place and the
right time. Everyone deserves love and everyone has the possibility to
find it.
8. Breakfast at Tiffany’s (1961)
If someone is more interested in the other person’s status or
money, it’s not real love. This has sadly become far too common with
many people more in pursuit of what they can gain from a partner, as
opposed to how that person makes them feel.
If someone truly loves you for you, the size of your bank balance,
who you know or the material things they can benefit from being with
you, will not matter.
9. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind (2004)
There is sometimes no greater pain than a heartbreak, and to some
people, it may feel impossible to find a way out of that anguish.
Don’t force healing or deny yourself the grieving process. It is
important to you give yourself the time that you need. Don’t try to find
quick solutions such as partying or finding someone else immediately,
as ultimately, these are just misguided ways to numb the pain. Pushing
yourself too hard to get over someone often makes things worse. It
should not be rushed–take as long as you need.
10. The Notebook (2004)
True love never forgets and will stand the test of time. And no
matter what, it will keep fighting and being loyal till the end,
irrespective of the circumstances. There are no obstacles that are too
big or small when it comes to real love.
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Via Life Hack
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