In a bid to make the celebration of Father’s Day in Cameroon a currency
and to step up the visibility of this beautiful event as a complement to
both Women’s Day and Mother’s Day, A Common Future Organization that
works to transform lives and build common frontiers by highlighting the
central role men can play in ending violence against women, girls and
children urges President Paul Biya to sign a Father’s Day Proclamation
that sets aside June 17 as Father’s Day in Cameroon, as obtains today
around the world.
In doing this, President Paul Biya would not only be paying tribute to
his own father but also to all the fathers that toil day and night to
see that the children they are bringing up are Cameroonians worthy of
respect. It is today incumbent on President Paul Biya to proclaim a
Father’s Day for, if his father did not swing the Bible as a catechist
to raise him up, he would not be there today to swing his Presidential
pen.
It should be recalled that Father’s Day is intended to acknowledge and
celebrate the important role a father plays in raising a child and
consequently, building a stronger society. Though fathers have been
revered at all times across civilizations, ironically what was missing
until the last century was the official recognition of the significance
of fathers in ones life. The Father’s Day story is the tale of the
realization of the need for a father’s day festival primarily by Ms
Sonora Louise Smart Dodd of Washington for a date to be set aside to
honour all fathers and father-figures. The story goes that when in 1909,
Sonora, then 27 years old, heard a Mother’s Day sermon, she started
reflections on the hardships her father must have gone through while
bringing up his six children alone after her mother died during
childbirth. Sonora questioned that if there is a day to celebrate and
recognize a mother then why is not there a day to honour a father? Her
advocacy campaign bone fruits when on June 19, 1910, the local Young
Men’s Christian Association (YMCA) celebrated Father’s Day. As Sonora’s
Campaign intensified, President Lyndon Johnson signed a Presidential
Proclamation in 1966 declaring the third Sunday of June as Father’s Day.
By 1972, Father’s Day had become a hugely popular event across the
world where people thank their fathers and pay tribute to them by
offering gifts and cards.
In Cameroon, the Baptist Church has upheld this tradition by
recognizing the work of the Men’s Wing every June 17 during Sunday
service. This year 2012 is the first time a civil society organization
is stepping in to complement the church and to put Father’s Day at the
forefront of public consciousness by organizing a campfire for youths
and men on the evening of June 16, and a Roundtable conference after
Church services on June 17, on the central role fathers play in building
a strong society where men and women, as well as boys and girls have a
common future. The conference which shall take place at the Ntamulung
Church Hall, shall witness the participation of nationally acclaimed
church leaders including Christian Cardinal Tumi and Ntumfor Barrister
Nico Halle
We urge youths and men fellowships, associations and civil society
organizations to join us at the June 16 evening campfire at New Station
Hill for prayers, singing and story telling about our own fathers and
for the Sunday June 17, 3 pm conference to share the Father’s Day cake,
exchange of gifts and the autograph of 200 copies of the book. “Ntumfor
Nico Halle: An Inspiring Role Model” for Cameroonian youth
Father’s Day activities shall also be launched on June 17, in Muteff, a
village situated off the jaws of Fundong in Boyo Division where a
football tournament Christianed Fulai-Nabeng Memoral Cup shall run to
August 12, which is International Youth Day. This football competition
which is in memory of a great father, Bobe Fulai Bain shall be used as a
platform to sensitize youths along the River Ngwah valley on issues of
HIV/AIDS, Sexual and Reproductive Health rights, violence against women
and especially widow inheritance. The holiday competition shall end with
the launch of a 100 page book, A Father’s Tribute in honour of my
father, who, though death to this world, constantly reminds me in my
dreams that: “Gwain, don’t forget my advice, grow up to be a man worthy
of respect”
Our lobbying and advocacy campaign comprises a “corridoring” at the
National Assembly during this June session, newspaper publications, and
radio and TV talk shows. All funds and resources mobilized during this
campaign shall go to support the holiday sport competition in Muteff
Village.
A Common Future believes like George Bush at the 2007 Father’s Day
Proclamation that, “Responsible fatherhood is important to a healthy and
civil society”. Numerous studies confirm that children whose fathers
are present and involved in their lives are more likely to develop into
prosperous and healthy adults.
Created in 2007, A Common Future works with men to end violence against
women, girls and children in society by proposing alternative models of
masculinity that are not necessarily in opposition to models of
femininity and that allow men and women to share love, decision making
and sexual and reproductive health decisions.
For more information and
to support our Father‘s Day activities call +237. 77 85 24 76 or email
acommonfuture1@yahoo.com.
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